Dear Christian, how do you respond to me or someone like me? Do I scare you? Could we be friends? Will you avoid me? Do you wish me well?

Christianity as my Legacy and as my Addiction. Should I feel shame in stepping away from my heritage? Was I addicted to Christianity?

I gave God complete control of me and believed he controlled the world. I have taken that control back. Now I want to be a free me.

I want to encourage you to examine what you believe, why you believe and what the result of those beliefs are for you, others and the world.

Holding religion accountable is near impossible. Today I want to look at what harm religion has done and who is hurt by religion.

What does it mean to listen our to bodies, to consider sexuality in our bodies and what should we think about the future of our bodies?

This week I revisited my previous blogs and I have pulled out 10 memorable and meaningful paragraphs from my writings. I want to share them

Deconversion is a lonely and controversial journey. When I read the book “Leaving the Fold” by Marlene Winell, I immediately felt seen.

An ExChristian’s purpose. It can be worth pursuing the question of purpose. This is especially true after leaving a faith that defined it.

Was my Christianity a high control religion? I will go over a little of my church history and what a high control religion is.

If you're asking who I am without Christ, know it is different than Christians have been taught. We don’t live in darkness or hopelessness. 

An ExChristian talks about comparing and how it harms us and keeps us from healing.

Easter greetings from an Ex-Christian. Let’s talk about navigating doubts and difficult family gatherings this Easter holiday season....

When I was a Christian, I was taught that a Biblical worldview was very important, even crucial to living a good life and making the...

Today let’s talk about how you are doing. When I worked in Community Wellness and mentored students I would ask students to evaluate how...

The whole idea of choice when it comes to deconstructing faith and deconverting is an interesting one. Do people have a choice about...

I had an interesting conversation last week. In the discussion I was asked, why did I deconvert? How could I, always a good girl, good...

This is a blog to say I am going to continue blogging. I’m going to continue on the same vein, maybe weekly, maybe every other week as...

I almost didn’t publish anything today. It seems I’m running out of things to talk about. I’m thinking less about what I used to believe....

I’m excited for Christmas this year. I’m more excited and more ready emotionally than I have been in years past. Though my views on faith...